Wednesday, October 2, 2013

Death By DISHONOR: SOCIAL MEDIA EDITION

     Social Media as we know it has become the modern day PUBLIC NOTEBOOK.  Social media reminds me of that black and white notebook that you and some of your close friends made to communicate in class and tell every situation about your life that was going on at the time.  Only difference is that in this day and age its PUBLIC... we went from wall post on Facebook to pictures on Instagram this shows how social media is leaving less and less privacy.  SOOOOO lets talk about social media & relationships.

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           All relationships NEED privacy.  Well these days, privacy is almost non existent.  Only privacy a relationship may get is through the standard privacy settings.  Who's fault is it when it comes to the relationship ending over IG likes or FB comments? Relationships can be tricky if you have a crazy or insecure girl/boy friend. If you do have one of those then you should probably only add family members to your social network.  Social media can be used to show off your love and your prize from GOD but don't post your fights and arguments on there.  DO NOT post your drama and making tweet-grams stating how trifling your partner is then 2 hours later you talking about oh how I love him/her and they're the one.  YOU SOUND RIDICULOUS.... YES I said it... Honestly you can't talk about how trifling someone is and then be with them and then get mad at the world for thinking you are stupid for being with someone because you put all your private business in a PUBLIC STREET.  

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        So you and your partner are attractive people (so you believe) and your partner gets 75 IG likes without you in the picture but they get 15 IG likes with you all together in a picture, do you get mad or do you respect it? Well i'll answer that for you.  You all are going to get outraged.  For women you all mad because out of them 75 likes 65 of them are women and out of that 65, 45 of those women your man probably has done and the other 20 are a mixture of female friends and random women he done added.  Do not let a comment be made and your man around 9 times out of 10 you going to ask "who she" knowing that you don't know her even if he told you.  Fellas you all get pissed too.  Especially if if out of those 75, 3 of those men are men that your lady has smashed.the dude don't even have to comment just seeing that dude like the pic you asking her "YO YOU BEEN LIKING HIS PICTURES" lol.   NOW do you see how dumb all this sounds... Next thing you know ya'll broken up and shorty/ol' boy dating and putting up pics of the person that one person that liked the picture that you didn't even think about now you going back to week 65 to see if he liked week 65 picture when you and your ex-partner was together... EPIC FAIL.... #YouDontHearMeTho lol

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  1. The second paragraph is what gets me. I find myself saying this every other day. There are atleast 4 girls I can name off hand that talk soooo evil about their men and then be all up in love the next. The worst is when its a diff dude every week. Seriously? You look dumb *in my Antoine Dodson voice* Keep your business your business!

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    1. Not Mr. Dodson voice though??? lol. Yes it is annoying to see. How can one say they want Kings but give the idea of their man as a Peasant to the world???

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