Jian Feng Took the Phrase 'God Don't Like Ugly' to A Whole Other Level!!! #HaveASeatSunday

 I saw this article a minute ago and thought it was ridiculously funny, but also quite thought provoking.  It has been making its way around the web and yesterday, I brought it up to my family and they went HAM AND CHEESE debating about it.  So, I wanted to get you alls opinions.

For those who are unfamiliar, a Chinese man, Jian Feng sued his wife after she gave birth to what he called an "ugly" baby girl, claiming that his wife must have cheated on him.  He got a paternity test and found out that the children were in fact his, and that his kids actually favored his wife prior to her having $62,000 worth of surgery that he knew nothing about. 

Jian Feng won the lawsuit based on his claim that his wife married him under false pretenses because she never told him about her face changing plastic surgery.  The judge found his claims valid and awarded Feng $75,000 for damages.

Was Feng's wife wrong for not sharing her before and after pictures with her husband prior to marriage?

Would you get a paternity test if you had a beautiful spouse but the kids came out "ugly"?

Whose side would you be on if you were the judge?

Who should #HaveASeat on this Sunday?

MUSIC MONDAY (Local Artist Alert)

Myke Eazy (Michael Sims) has been writing and singing music since the age of nine. His whole family were vocalists and enjoyed music, so a house full of singing didn’t seem that special to him. So it was not until he reached college where he realized just how much promise his own musical talent held for him. He recently penned his first song for his new album entitled "Love" and posted the track on Twitter and Facebook. He soon had over 15k twitter followers and a new, fast-growing fan base.
Michael’s music has a rich blend of beats, harmony and soul that takes his R&B sound to a new level. His inspiration comes from music icons Stevie Wonder, Michael Jackson, Tank, Kanye West and Frank Ocean. “My art is unique, fresh, and new. It isn't trying to be like anything else out there right now so comparison is futile. My sound is all my own and though my brand is still in its formation, it is growing thanks to people who appreciate the music,” said Eazy.
“I am very excited to bring to you a fresh sound and a new brand! The first project is entitled "I Can Do Anything" and is available on iTunes as well as many other online music stores! I am an advocate of encouraging others that they too can do anything that they set their minds too!” Eazy added.

Preview his new track CD here at http://cdbaby.com/cd/mykeeazy2 


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HUMBLE AWARD: Willie Porter Jr. (The Beginning of Greatness)

In this edition of Culture Shock we would like to give the Humble Award to a special Artist Willie Porter Jr.  The Humble Award is given to people in our community that are making an impact on our society.  Many we may know, but some are under the radar.  I would like to take the time out to thank Willie Porter Jr. for his presence in the D.C., Maryland, and Virginia community where I met him, and for the positive effect that he has on the people that come in contact with him.  I will give you all some background on Willie Porter Jr.

Full Name: Willie Porter Jr.

D.O.B: June, 1990 

Born in: Flint, Michigan

Residence Now: Richmond, VA

I asked Mr. Porter when did he recognize his creative gift?

Willie Porter:  "I didn't recognize my creative gift. People I love & respect recognized it for me and I felt I owed it to them and myself to take it seriously. My high school art teacher gave me that push that I needed. My senior year of high school, I had no intention of going to college until about April. When my art teacher got on me to create a portfolio and submit it to vcu. She told me that if I applied that she'd write my letter of recommendation and guide me through the process. Needless to say, I got accepted into their school of arts and never looked back. Although I didn't finish my schooling there, that experience with my teacher was the spark I needed to appreciate my gift."

I asked Mr. Porter how will he use his gift to inspire the WORLD?

Willie Porter: "I can't speak of all the things God will allow me to do to inspire the world in days to come, but I can tell you about a plan I have that I feel will greatly impact a city. I'm moving to Richmond, Va tomorrow morning. I quit my job two weeks ago. I plan to paint and tattoo to cover my rent. While I have no doubts that I'm going to get it done, I thought over and over about how I could connect with Richmond. Sure I know people who I attended VCU (Virginia Common Wealth University) with, but how can I immediately be a presence in the art scene. While I've made a name for myself in Fredericksburg, Va that buzz won't keep me afloat in Richmond, Va. 

One day as I was riding through Richmond with my girl I kept thinking and thinking. Looking around at all the students, business men/women, and countless homeless ppl. Where do I start as far as making my mark. Then it hit me and I couldn't stop smiling. I have to start from the bottom. Once I unpack my things tomorrow, I'm putting the cardboard boxes to use. I'm painting as many pieces of cardboard that I can, with whatever comes to mind. Whether it be portraits, animals, whatever. Then I'm gonna walk the city and hand them to bums. Not only is it free promotion for me, but it'll bring more attention and potentially more money to them. Now what they do with it has nothing to do with me. I'm gonna give the choice of either selling my paintings and let them keep the money, or keeping the paintings. Hopefully them holding on to something that is typically found in a home will inspire them to end up in a home and not on the street. If they do sell what I give them, then I'll bring them more. Everyone sees bums. Everyday. I know I'd stop and notice a bum holding art. I have many more ideas when it comes to the homeless, but that's all I'll share for now."

Mr. Porter has demonstrated faith, perseverance, and trust way possible.  I commend this brother for his achievements and I pray for his future success.  Once again to a humble gentleman we present WILLIE PORTER JR. with the HUMBLE AWARD.  Check out a couple of pieces of Willie Porter Jr's artwork below.  Leave comments and responses.  His contact information for painting inquires is: WillEPorter810@aol.com

MUSIC MONDAY!!!!!!!!!! (ENGAGEMENT OR MARRIAGE)

EVERYBODY ITS MUSIC MONDAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!! 

First and foremost we want to apologize for the delay of the blog last week. It was a tough week for us.  We have had very busy schedule's in our personal lives, but we are back and booming.  NOW BACK TO REGULAR SCHEDULED PROGRAMMING.  We are going to slow this thing down today, and even though it may not be NEW we want to introduce you to John Legend's recent single "ALL OF ME."  Let us know is this an Engagement song or a Wedding Song (walking down the aisle song)

Permit to Parent...Should You Have to Get A Permit to Have Children?

      In light of several cases of recent child neglect, abuse and just downright bad parenting, I wanted to pose the question, "Should there be preliminary screenings or restrictions placed on people who wish to become parents, especially those with prior convictions or diagnosed psychological illnesses?"   

   
     Here we see Jessica Howell (to the left), a 25 year old mother, who was dating (Jordan Prince) a known registered sex offender, whom she allegedly gave consent to rape and kill her 4 month old baby and on December 3rd of last year, he did just that.  Recently, Jordan (boyfriend of mother) was indicted on counts of first degree murder and Jessica (the mother) on counts of second degree murder.
      My heart hurts for what that 4 month old, voiceless child must have went through and what so many other young children like her go through everyday.  Children who cannot speak for themselves and cannot fight back.  Children who are expected to be protected by their parents, but instead are placed in harms way.   Having children should be a gift from God, not to be taken lightly, but it seems more and more often, we see cases of horrific evil senseless adults having children and misusing their power as parents.  How could anyone as demonic and sick as this woman be allowed to parent a child, let alone walk the streets, period?  Unfortunately, this is not as uncommon as one may think.  Every day, more than four children die at the hands of child abusers, 80% under the age of four.  So I ask again,  "Should there be preliminary screenings or restrictions placed on people who wish to become parents, especially people with prior convictions or diagnosed psychological issues?"   What do you think?

Also, I dont want to end this post without saying that even if you could never imagine allowing someone to do this to your child, please take a second to understand that child abuse comes in many forms, some of which have become common among young parents and they are as follows:

1. Dressing your child in inappropriate attire
2. Allowing children to watch overtly sexual or overly violent shows/movies
3. Telling your children to dance inappropriately for their age
4. Allowing children in the room as you and your partner have sexual intercourse
5. Leaving your child with unfit sitters and/or people you do not know well
6. Allowing your children to drink alcoholic beverages, smoke or do drugs

These are just to name a few.  It is never too late to learn how to become an effective and knowledgeable parent.  Please use the utmost discernment when deciding to bring others around your children and in deciding what is right and wrong for a child's normal/natural development.  What you may deem okay, may be child neglect or abuse.  There are resources available to you (i.e.Skillful Parenting, Parent Education Program, etc.)  If you suspect ANY form of child abuse is going on, please call 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) IT IS YOUR BUSINESS, IT IS YOUR DUTY!

PARENT FAILS!

Cutest Celeb Couples (You Decide)...

 A. Floyd Mayweather & Miss Jackson

 B. Miguel & Nazanin 

 C. Diddy & Cassie

 D. John & Christine

Which Is Your Pick for Cutest Celeb Couple?

Submit a pic & brief story of you and your love so we can vote for you and your boo as cutest couple!

Interested, Thirsty, or Is It Just A Creep Life

I had a special request this past week they wanted to know what is the line between interested and thirsty.  When should we give him/her a glass of water? Well let’s dig into the issue a little more.  From experience I have seen many women shut down a man and call him thirsty when the guy just showed interest.  I have also been that guy that will say “hello beautiful” or “I saw you and I just had to talk to you?” no pick up lines just straight honesty.  I have also have an experience where I just wanted to tell a female that she was nice looking and I received the boo boo face.  Now, after receiving the boo boo face I was salty but I just let it go.  I knew she wouldn't get a good man with that kind of attitude and I kept it moving.  I just think this thin line between interests and thirsty is not that thin.  It is relatively thick.  If a guy comes up to you attractive or not and tells you that you are gorgeous and he wants to know your name unless you have a man you could be very courteous and say “thank you” and give your name.  If you are not interested tell him politely and keep it moving.  Now MEN please pleaseeeeeee pleaseeeeee do not be ignorant and hit the “Well you weren’t that cute anyway” at that point you sound desperate.  Women if you have a man you can still say “thank you, however I’m taken but I appreciate the gesture.” For the men out there that think that every woman wants them it’s not true!!!! Lol.  When a woman says hello that’s not code for “I’m DTF” (down to F**K).  Sometimes hello means hello and when she says you look nice that does not mean “OOOO I WANT YOU NOW”.  Men just know that you should carry yourself appropriately when approaching and being approached by a woman.  Also, women stop acting like a guy can’t say hello.  He’s not thirsty, sometimes he is just interested. 

Let’s take a moment on being thirsty.  Thirsty is similar to the word pressed.  If all you do all day is approach every woman you see you just may be thirsty.  If as a woman all you do is post pictures on IG with your cheeks out or in lingerie you thirsty and no GOOD MAN wants you or that.  ß Just because he will FU*% you does not mean that he wants you as a person.  Thirsty is going for all married men.  Thirsty is calling a female and texting her in the same minute.  If she doesn’t answer your call, why text her right after?  You all are not DATING!  Women if you have a child(ren) and you chasing a man and trying to find out what the next man is doing and, you are forgetting your child(ren) at daycare then you are thirsty and need to check your priorities.  Now Creeps are just that Creeps.  We all know what makes a guy a creep and what makes a woman a creep.  It is not Halloween and no one wants to be with a creep besides maybe another creep.  #ButYouDontHearMeTho